1:53 p.m. ||January 26, 2006 Can we be friends? The worst four words you can hear following a breakup. You know whomever is saying these words is just trying to make you feel better. After all how can you be friends with someone who ripped your heart out and ate it for breakfast? But say you really try to be friends- I think it won't work. Someone will always be wanting more and what happens when one of you starts dating again? How will you feel knowing that person, your ex, your new "friend" is now having sex with someone else. But I believe you possibly can be friends with an ex if you fast foward until both of you are completely over the realationship. That could take days, months or even years. I ask this question of can we be friends because I have sent an ex an email, just to say hi and maybe chat sometime. I want absolutely no part of getting back together with him. I have been over him for years. He has not responded to me. Is this because he is not over me or believes that you can't ever be friends with an ex? I mean I would be completely happy to have us fall in love- but not with each other. I only want his friendship. I'll never understand relationships. |